Originally posted on August 22nd, 2005

At what point does a woman “need” to sleep with a guy before he loses interest in dating her any more?

I’ve known lots of guys, friends and men I’ve dated or been in relationships with, and most of them tell me that there’s no magic number… but I think they just tell me that because I’m a woman and they don’t want to look like assholes.

The truth is, we women learn pretty early on that there is definitely an expectation among guys that if a woman doesn’t want to sleep with them, eventually they will date someone who does. I know that in the past, I’ve felt some pressure (maybe self-imposed) to have sex by date 3…

Is there a magic number?

Personally, I’m not a big fan of these “games.” I pretty much know by the second date if I’m willing to continue seeing a guy, and I already know [...]

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Your Valentine’s Day Sex Playlist

Posted on February 12th, 2008 by Christine.
Categories: Sex and Relationships.

In preparation for Valentine’s Day, I’ve put together a playlist for all the guys who want their girlfriends/wives to think they are romantic when they actually aren’t:

Add this to you Songza!

1. Just Another by Pete Yorn

2. Glory Box by Portishead

3. Undress Me Now by Morcheeba

4. Beautiful by James Blunt

5. Your Body is Wonderland by John Mayer

6. Calling You by Blue October

7. You and Me by Lifehouse

8. By My Side by INXS

9. Sistinas by Danzig

10. Everything I Do by Bryan Adams

11. So Alive by Love and Rockets

12. Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls

13. One Headlight by the Wallflowers

14. Ever the Same by Rob Thomas

15. Sweet Child O’ Mine by Guns ‘N Roses

16. Always on My Mind by Elvis Presley

17. Killing Me …

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Don’t Steal A Flower To Give To A Girl

Posted on October 11th, 2007 by Christopher.
Categories: Sex and Relationships.

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So I know some of the ladies reading are thinking.. ahhh how sweet.  He stole a flower to give to Christine.    I can tell you one lady.. (Christine) who isn’t thinking this at all. She infact thinks I stole a flower JUST to piss her off. (Because she has told me she hates this before)… ok ok.. this is true but that doesn’t negate how damn nice of a gesture it was to begin with.

Breaking down human behavior into rules might seem like a gross simplification. But even with the complexities, it is easy to fall into the same mistakes. I’d argue that many heated fights, and broken hearts …

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9 Ways to Test Her Love

Posted on September 30th, 2007 by Christopher.
Categories: Sex and Relationships.

    I think in every relationship there comes a time where you really need to know where you stand.  The truth is relationships are really about testing your significant other to see if they are up to snuff, how they react to certain things can tell you a lot about how deep their feelings are for you.  If the girl doesn’t mind you burping in her face.. that is probably a good thing… ok she might mind but as long as she can giggle that is good.  Over the years I’ve devised a variety of ways to test my status wiht Christine and I’ve listed them below.

    1. The Gum Test - This is personally one of my favorites. Basically the way

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    The Likelihood of Dating a Christopher…

    Posted on July 24th, 2007 by Christine.
    Categories: Sex and Relationships.

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    Last week, Christopher’s parents came to visit and while Christopher was spending time with his dad, I spent quite a bit of time with his mom. Now… let me give you some background on our names. Christopher is called “Chris” by almost everyone. I am called “Christine” by almost everyone except my immediate family. They call me “Chris.” When Christopher and I visit my family and someone says, “Hey, Chris…” we both turn and look, but my family calls Christopher “Christopher” because they’re used to calling me “Chris.” It’s all a little confusing for sure.

    While Christopher’s parents were out, his mother had lunch with my mother and my mom called me …

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    Conduct “Unbecoming”

    Posted on July 16th, 2007 by Christine.
    Categories: Current Events & Politics, Sex and Relationships.

    Two cases involving the behavior of women being scrutinized has recently garnered a lot of public attention, so I thought I’d post on the subject and give my two cents.

    First, let’s talk about Miss New Jersey. Here’s the recap: 22-year-old Amy Polumbo (Miss New Jersey) was almost forced to give up her crown after “racy” photos were anonymously mailed to pageant officials. It turns out that she was able to keep her crown, but after seeing the photos that were ultimately released to the public, I’m wondering why it was a problem to begin with. The photos– which show no nudity at all– are hardly racy. One shows Amy’s boyfriend pretending to bite her nipple through her …

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