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Ben2 the Soldier (56)Posted on August 5th, 2005 by Christine.
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But… I think important things should just be mentioned as soon as possible because they are just that?important. By not telling his fianc? that he lost his job, he put his fianc? in a position to look stupid when she talked about his job to other people, and it also clearly communicated to other people that he is not honest with her because she was kept in the dark. Her parents, as most parents would be, didn?t appreciate that he would keep that from their daughter when every parent wants their child to be in an honest, healthy relationship. In my opinion, Ashton should have just been upfront and honest with his fianc? and they could have decided together whether or not they would mention his job loss to her parents. That way, she also could have supported his attempts to avoid talking about his job with her father. The only way to have a long, happy relationship is knowing you can trust your partner to be honest with you, without having to follow a laundry list of rules about what specific questions you?re supposed to ask or not ask, how it should be worded, etc. Just as the country rolled its eyes when Clinton debated the meaning of the word ?is? during the Lewinski scandal inquiries, anything less than just forthcoming honesty is a way to skirt having to tell the truth. And not telling the truth, however you decide to justify it in your own head, is nothing but lying. 6 comments. Wierd Neighbors, Water and Loud Noises »« Hooray for Being a Lazy Ass!
This is insanity.. because he didn’t want to talk about it before their trip home to meet the parents doesn’t mean he lied to her.. it just meant he was umcomfortable about it and needed time to get it out… I think she was a major cunt for even being mad.. oh not to mention she never mentioned he was WHITE to her parents. August 5th, 2005
That is one of my favourite movies.. its called GUESS WHO. I love it so much August 10th, 2005
I thought he quietly DID mentionit but she was too busy talking to hear, and by the time she was done he decided not to repeat it August 12th, 2005
Well GlynZaphodEvans… you might be right. That may have slipped past me as I was watching… but either way, it’s irrelevant. Whether he said it and she didn’t hear it, or said it in Hebrew and she didn’t understand it, or said it by signing it to her, the point is– he knew she didn’t hear it. It’s not like he thought she understood him and was surprised when he found out she didn’t have that important piece of information. He knew that she was unaware he was no longer employed, so whether or not you communicated something is pretty much pointless if you know the person didn’t hear you. August 12th, 2005
Glyn, That is usually what happens to me. August 12th, 2005
And that brings up a good point too… why was he trying to interrupt her when she was already talking? He should have been listening. And let’s just be honest… if you can’t tell your partner the truth, you need to grow a pair. August 12th, 2005 
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