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I’ve always understood many of her reasons in the above explanations, her job is here, her choice is already made and she really doesn’t have any choice in the matter so she is making the best of it. When people’s jobs are located in a specific place and there family also happens to be in that same place those are great motivations, not to mention she likes the weather which I have found out is extremely important to Christine.
My only point to Christine is that I do not ever see this as home, it just doesn’t feel right it lacks all the important elements in a place that I would likely choose to settle in and when I pull out a piece of paper and mark off the positives and negatives, I’m usually left with a very lopsided piece of paper that tilts in the direction negative. There are things that living in LA absolutely rules out for me, like having kids and I also feel I live a much less fulfilling life since I moved to Los Angeles, mostly because of the massive amounts of money and time it takes to even to the simple pleasures of life. ( Seroiusly a grand goes quick in LA strip clubs ) 
All this being said no place is perfect and I realize there are many places I would like less, but it is important to realize that my job doesn’t necessary keep me where I’m at, and my family does not live here either, and I actually really miss seasons.
These types of things work themselves out, and I don’t spend a lot of time thinking about it, I certainly don’t wake up feeling angry at Christine becuase I have to deal with Los Angeles on a daily basis.. nor do I blame her for me still being here, that is my choice and she is after all just a girl.
Christine the Lioness mentioned
Since that is how he truly feels… I am looking forward to never hearing again the words, “If I were relevant to you at all, you’d put having me above living in L.A.,” and “There’s no way you’re actually happy living in L.A., that’s just ludicrous,” and “God, I hate this city.”
I believe that things are what you make of them… and your perspective on something is more real to you than how things really are. Whenever I’m stuck in L.A. traffic, I sit in my cruddy little car and look at the rows of palm trees and blue sky and clouds and think about how lucky I am in my life to have accomplished so much and have great friends and be blessed with all the things God gave me.
But I disagree with him that these types of things “work themselves out.” He hates talking about our relationship and does everything in his power to avoid a conversation that might lead to a realization on either of our parts that we may not be compatible in the long-term. Despite what he wants you to believe, this has come up time and again, so I guess we’re still waiting for it to work itself out. In the meantime, it puts a lot of stress on me, and makes me hesitate when I think about moving forward in a relationship with him.
If living here is something that precludes him from having kids, then that’s something we should talk about, because I want to have one someday, and I’m willing to work harder to pay for private schools and all the things you need to do here for your kids that you don’t have to do in other places. But again, if that’s not something he wants… it’s only fair to tell me now, so that I can try to seek out someone who wants the same things I do in life.
Christopher the Pyro uttered
Oh Christine, it’s just pay back for all the insane shit u throw at me when I’m not ready. I doubt I’ll ever bring it up again, there isn’t much more to be said your obviously very happy and I’m obviously very indifferent at this time otherwise I wouldn’t be here now would I?
Christine2 the Virgin uttered
“Whenever I?m stuck in L.A. traffic, I sit in my cruddy little car and look at the rows of palm trees and blue sky and clouds and think about how lucky I am in my life to have accomplished so much and have great friends and be blessed with all the things God gave me.”
BULLSHIT. You say…..FUCK! GET OUT OF THE WAAAAAAAY!
Christine the Lioness mentioned
And I’m sure if I did that, everyone would just pull their cars over to the shoulder so I could pass. Brilliant idea… I’ll try that next time.
Christopher the Pyro spake, and sayeth
Depends.. on if you use that special super annoying Howard Dean Screech Voice.. then they might.. I know I would…. ( BTW she does scream GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY WAY YOU FUCKING IDIOTS ) .. because I’m usually on the phone with her when she is sitting in her 2 hour commute home from a 30 minute meeting.
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